Holding the bride's hand, the bridegroom walks seven steps with her. This is the most important part of the marriage ceremony, and only when they walk 7 steps together (i.e. perform SAPTAPADHI) is the marriage complete legally. The belief is that when one walks 7 steps with another, one becomes the other's friend. The mantras recited then, mean:”Ye who have walked seven steps with me, become my companion, whereby I acquire your friendship. We shall remain together inseparable. Let us make a vow together, we shall share love, share the same food; share the strengths, the same tastes. We shall be one mind, we shall observe the vows together, I shall be the SAMA, you the RIG; I shall be the SUKHILAM, you the HOLDER-together we shall live, beget children and other riches, come thou, sweet-minded girl!”
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